Q and A Part 2
Does having a daughter make you think twice about promoting sex work?
Not really. My daughter is only 3 so putting her in the same sentence as sex work is really wrong. If I picture her as a young woman of legal age, my only hope for her is that she does what makes her happy and that she is safe. If I can ‘promote’ sex work and help make the industry safer for workers, then I would be happy for any person I know to work in it - related or not.
What did you want to be growing up?
It always changed but the main three were
- Private Investigator
When people ask what you do for work, what do you tell them?
At first I tell them I work in the adult entertainment industry. If they ask me to elaborate, I will. Generally my opening line turns into a long winded conversation.
Are you classed as a pimp?
Haha, I love this question!
I’ve actually done my research. A pimp is “a man who controls prostitutes and arranges clients for them, taking a percentage of their earnings in return.”
I am not a man and I don’t “control” anyone... So no. Not a pimp 😞
Where did you grow up?
I grew up in a humble little suburb in the south eastern suburbs - Mulgrave. My dad is still in the same house I grew up in!
What’s the grossest thing you’ve ever witnessed in a brothel?
Haha... haaahaaaa SO MANY GROSS THINGS!
There’s a condom bin! Sometimes girls don’t put their used condoms in bags so there’s literally just used condoms with jizz everywhere in a small black bin. Bleh.
The other was a fetish piece of equipment. The “toilet box”
See photo below....
(Yes, someone’s head goes in there.)
Do you think you’ll ever get sick of working in the sex business?
I’ve actually thought about that a lot. The thing about it is that no two days are the same. I’ve never done the same thing over and over so it is always interesting. I may get bored.... I do lose interest in things but I can’t see it happening very soon.
I once had a boyfriend who wanted to dress up as a baby, is that normal?
I don’t like the term “normal”. Adult baby syndrome (aka autonepiophilia) is a type of fetish that isn’t seen much in mainstream brothels but rather in establishments made for fetishes.
The Fetish House in Oakleigh actually sells adult nappies and things like that so it’s not COMPLETELY unheard of. Personally not my cup of tea though...... lol
Is it true escorts don’t kiss on the lips?
Argh! Such a misconception!
Most do. Some do not.
I’ve only ever met one or two that don’t.
Do couples ever go into brothels?
I’ve never seen it. But that’s not to say it doesn’t happen. I think they’re more likely to get an escort and get that escort to go to their hotel room/house.
Do famous people hire escorts? If so, do you know of any?